Right now I say screw happy couples.
In general we're a happy couple, my boyfriend and I. But when it comes down to where we are going to live we butt heads. We'e both stubborn, which I usually find is a quality in him, but for this... It causes more pain than I'd like to admit. If I move where he is I'll be miserable and if he moves where I am he'll be miserable. To me it seems logical that since I have the baby here and have built us a life here, for him to move here with us. He doesn't see it that way and so we strongly disagree with one another.
Right now I want to rip my hair out because I see why he is saying what he's saying and I know he sees what I mean and yet, neither of us will budge. Argh!
I think we need to grow up haha
Seriously.
In general we're a happy couple, my boyfriend and I. But when it comes down to where we are going to live we butt heads. We'e both stubborn, which I usually find is a quality in him, but for this... It causes more pain than I'd like to admit. If I move where he is I'll be miserable and if he moves where I am he'll be miserable. To me it seems logical that since I have the baby here and have built us a life here, for him to move here with us. He doesn't see it that way and so we strongly disagree with one another.
Right now I want to rip my hair out because I see why he is saying what he's saying and I know he sees what I mean and yet, neither of us will budge. Argh!
I think we need to grow up haha
Seriously.